over50feeling40: Dare to Dream Means I MATTER...Plus the Thursday Blog Hop!
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Nov 19, 2014

Dare to Dream Means I MATTER...Plus the Thursday Blog Hop!

I love getting out in the public like I did last week at Saks Fifth Avenue.  I always enjoy meeting and speaking with people.  But, I noticed something last week which caused me to do some thinking.  I saw a host of women…all ages…frowning and scowling as they looked away when I smiled.  There could be many, many reasons for the frowns and distant looks.  As I walked out into the mall, I observed even more.
Maybe, they have lost their dreams, I thought.  I do not know what possessing dreams means to each of you.  But, for me, I hope I always dream.  Author C.S. Lewis wrote, “You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.”
Now, I am speaking of realistic dreams.  Dreams that take us to places where we can use our gifts and our ideas forever. Dreams which allow us to feed deep longings within our souls.  Dreams which may not happen in castles, but perhaps could happen in the trenches serving others.  These dreams will bring joy and contentment as we live them out and see them come to fruition.  If I produced a reality show, it would be about the dreamers of Main Street (rather than the Real Housewives of anywhere). I did see many frowns on Saturday, but thank goodness, I know more dreamers than I saw.   I meet them all of the time!
Dreaming is tricky though.  It is not just about seeing ourselves in a different world.  It requires much more.  We learn a lot from other dreamers in this respect:

Estee Lauder: “I never dreamed about success, I worked for it.”
Marcia Weider: “Commitment leads to action. Action brings your dream closer.”
Gloria Stienem: “Dreaming after all is a form of planning.”
Walt Disney: “All of your dreams can come true, if you have the courage to pursue them.”
Garth Brookes: “A dream is like a river, ever changing as it flows….”


It does take work, planning, commitment, courage, and understanding.  Yet, it is the type of work which is satisfying to our hearts and souls ….results? Smiles and contentment.






In order to carry the I MATTER sign…be a dreamer.  Here is the last quote which seems to be Anonymous:
Life ends when you stop dreaming
Hope ends when you stop believing
Love ends when you stop caring
Friendship ends when you stop sharing.

Please tell us...do you have a dream?

Thanksgiving is one week away and I am so grateful for all of you!  Now please go enjoy the other dreamers of Katie’s Favorite Things Blog Hop!

Happy Thursday!
(Photos were taken at the Woodlands Waterway in The Woodlands, Texas)

It’s time to hop! Party and link up! The Thursday Favorite Things Blog hop is where you can link your favorite post of the week or write a post about your favorite things and share it with old and new followers. The hop is hosted and posted on 3 different blogs! Your link will appear on the blogs of Katherine's Corner,  Over 50 Feeling 40, and Vintage Mama.  Three times the opportunity to make new bloggy friends and to share your wonderful blog and discover others to


RULES:

Please DO NOT link and run…….
  • Please visit a few of the wonderful blogs that are sharing here.
  •     Please leave comments when you visit
  •     Please Link to your post and not to your blog home page
  •     Linkback on your post (optional, but always appreciated)
  •     Grab the hop button code from The button page (optional)
  •     No adult content blogs
  • Please no more than 3 links to your blog
  •     No links directly to your shops or websites selling things/services please! (sorry they will be removed)
  •     Yes you can link giveaways (they are everyone’s favorite thing) Add your giveaways to Katherines Giveaways Page too!



7 comments:

  1. I am a dreamer too, Pam. Or so I thought. Maybe it would be more accurate to say I'm a planner. I think they go hand in hand. My problem is that my real dreams, the ones I store inside, are 'out there'. I have plans that are always evolving, and I have to be very cautious not to let my dreams become "if onlys." While I will admit to having those 'out there' dreams, I am also very realistic (which can be hard on dreaming!). I will always dream, always. And i will continue to plan and bring those plans to fruition so that my dreams become reality! Karen

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  2. Hello cute lady! I always love stopping by and partying with you each week. Thank you for hosting. Please come by our party. We would really appreciate it! Happy Thursday! Lou Lou Girls

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  3. I love this--a bit different than your usual posts and very inspirational. Thanks for starting my morning off right!

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  4. This is beautiful. I'm a dreamer, but I'm more a day-dreamer. Day dreamers dream their dreams while wide awake and tend to live them out as their dreaming. I love dreams and I think they help us through a lot in life...without them we'd be nothing really. We just have to remember to put action into those dreams like a 'day dreamer' and not let them just be thoughts in our minds, but reality!! Happy Thursday doll :) xxx

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  5. Pam keep smiling girlfriend and yes, my dream is to be strong again to travel as I still have quite a few countries on my bucket list!

    xoxo
    Karena
    The Arts by Karena

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  6. So beautiful Pam! It takes courage to pursue our dreams. Very inspirational!

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Thanks so much for joining in our conversation today! I appreciate your time and love hearing from you!