NUMBER ONE: CHOOSE JOY DAILY!
I am one of “those” people…you know…we see the glass half full rather than half empty….and, I am well aware, annoys, the half empties. But, just because life is life, I also have my moments when I struggle with the “down and outs.” About eight years ago, I had to live with three children, one husband, my mother and my mother-in-law (MIL) in my MIL’s house!! My friends kept informing me that I was insane, but it was a necessary evil while we sold a house and purchased another. My mother was there to care for the MIL who broke her hip while chasing down our dog! Got the picture
I came out of that moment pretty scarred to say the least and thought I had lost my joy forever. Somehow though, I found it after turning 50 and going through a personal crisis…. an eye opening, defining moment.
So, this year, I plan to live with joy every day….no matter what comes my way! It’s a goal! We will see how I do, but the game plan is to:
1. Just take one day at a time…which means, I do not ponder the future a lot.
2. I do not take myself or my circumstances too seriously....laughing and singing are key parts of this!
3. I understand that I exist for a purpose and look each day for ways to fulfill it as a mother, wife, teacher, friend, writer, and now blogger.
4. I also know that I am not alone and have a place to go for refreshment, encouragement and guidance!
5. I desire to inspire and encourage as many people as possible for that brings joy to me.
It is very stylish to be JOYFUL! A smile can turn any outfit around!
| Even when your umbrella is broken, choose joy!! |
In honor of JOY, I chose this outfit! It represents joy to me and brings a smile for several reasons…..
1. I really love the royal blue!
2. This scarf was a surprise Christmas gift from a friend and I was really touched she thought of me.
3. When I wear this outfit, look in the mirror, I smile!
| Hair looks gross because it is really raining and San Antonio needs it!! Rejoice! |
Long Cardigan from Stein Mart
Black Travelers Cami from Chicos
Scarf, gift, from Ann Taylor’s Loft
Jeans, Lane Bryant
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I am soooooooooo fortunate to have found you, your charisrma, your wisdom,and so many other adjetives that enrich my life.
ReplyDelete2011 is going to be FANTASTIC!!!
I adore your outfit!! And between your look and you OUTlook I am feelling rather joyous myself. Great suggestions, and thanks for your comments at Southern Comfort. We are so glad to have found you.
ReplyDeleteThis is a fun post - both the written message and the photos. I especially love the first photo - it made me smile.
ReplyDeleteHave a great 2011!!
Added to my blog list! Have a happy New Year!
ReplyDeleteI love that your umbrella matches your shirt!
ReplyDeleteVery chic
Here's to great joy in 2011!
Pam, a smile is always the best accessory and yours is absolutely infectious! 2011 is going to be GREAT. I can't tell you how glad I am that I met you...you bring me joy! :) ~Serene
ReplyDeleteI love the blue umbrella and your royal blue outfit! It's quite grand! And, I think you've definitely already nailed the "inspiring" goal ... already! This year!
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad I found you this year! And how nice of you to do a whole post about me! ;)
ReplyDeleteHere's to even more joy in 2011!!
that is a great resolution and an outlook that everyone should adopt.
ReplyDeletehave a joyful 2011!
Chic on the Cheap
You look fabulous in the blue! You have some great resolutions and in general a wonderful outlook on life! :) Happy New Year!
ReplyDeleteLove your look :) Blue is my favourite too, love the way you put this together and a great sentiment too!
ReplyDeleteHave a most excellent year!