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Oct 31, 2014

Jenny Craig: Something I Do For Me!


My journey with JENNY CRAIG is not just about weight loss...it is about changing years of bad habits and developing a healthy lifestyle which will be with me until the end!



A reader recently asked me how I do the diet and provide meals for my husband.  I actually live with my husband and youngest son who is in college, so there are three.









My answer is....I have hung up the aprons!
Perhaps that seems a bit harsh, but please understand, I have walked this walk for years.  I wish I had money for all of the diets I have begun and quit.

I quit because I kept cooking and for me cooking has been how I showed love to my family.  It also is something I love, so I tweak...and taste...and season...and taste...and make certain it is perfect in every way.



I failed so often and it usually happened during excuses made to serve the family, so this time I told the two men in my life...YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN.  Since June, I think I have cooked maybe three times and I was feeling sorry for them.  But, you know, they are adults and they have survived.  Also, they go out to eat together more often and I really believe it has brought father and son closer.

I need for it to be this way for now.  Since I was sick, I have stalled a bit....but I will persevere. For health reasons, I must lose more weight.  It is my time...now or never!  So, these two guys are fine on their own until I feel like I have reached my goals...a healthy weight and changed habits for good.

Yes, I am going to cook holiday meals...but my goal is to be down by a total of 25 pounds when Thanksgiving gets here....okay, I put it on the record...now we will see if I do it!  Please ask questions when you have them...it helps me know what you are processing about these posts!  And thanks for hanging in there with me JENNY CRAIG.

Now, in honor of Halloween, I bring you a resident of my backyard...have a fun and safe evening everyone!

*I was provided a free trial program, and free Jenny’s Cuisine® items. Currently, I purchase their food at a special rate.   However, the opinions and writing are entirely my own. 
Members following the Jenny Craig program, on average, lose 1-2 lbs per week

Oct 29, 2014

Renee Zellweger says I MATTER....and Katie's Thursday Blog Hop!

 
Wow, did you see the claws come out last week?? I do love working with and writing for women, but, let's face it, there are mean girls all around...not just in high school hallways. When actress Renee Zellweger appeared at the Elle Women in Hollywood Awards with a perceived "new facial look," social and entertainment media went wild.

Suddenly, critics portrayed her as a washed up actress bowing to the pressure of Hollywood competition.  I am certain there were some (perhaps, fresh out of cosmetic surgery themselves) who were letting Renee have it for nipping and tucking. And actually we do not know for sure exactly what she did...if anything.  She was raked over the digital media coals.
But, later, Renee would tell reporters,this amazing phrase...”I’m glad.”  Glad people had noticed there was something different??
"I'm living a different, happy, more fulfilling life, and I'm thrilled that perhaps it shows," the actress told PEOPLE.  "My friends say I look peaceful."

Though the actress, 45, thinks the chatter around her looks "silly," she added that for the first time in a long time, she's learned to slow down and focus on herself. In her 30s, she explained, she "took on a schedule that is not realistically sustainable and didn't allow for taking care of myself. “Rather than stopping to recalibrate, I kept running until I was depleted and made bad choices about how to conceal the exhaustion," she said. "I was aware of the chaos and finally chose different things. “Now happily dating musician Doyle Bramhall and focusing on causes that matter to her, Zellweger, who recently participated in the Walk to Defeat ALS in L.A. in support of her friend, said she's in a new place in her life -- and it shows.” I did work that allows for being still, making a home, loving someone, learning new things, growing as a creative person and finally growing into myself," she said. "People don't know me [as] healthy for a while. ... Perhaps I look different. Who doesn't as they get older?! Ha. But I am different. I'm happy."
In other words, she picked up the I MATTER sign! And I applaud her.  I am here to encourage women to realize they matter…how they interpret that, and what they decide to do in response is their choice.  As it was Renee’s.
We should not sit here as judge and jury over what any woman does to make herself feel more confident, strong, healthy, and joyful. She obviously is feeling great about the direction she has taken.  Shame on the ones who called her names and judged her decisions....without even understanding specifically what those decisions were.


I choose to color my hair…but I respect and applaud those women my age who do not.  We each need to decide what helps us feel and look our best where we are right now.  You go Renee!  I support your decisions to say... 

I MATTER!













What do you think?
Tell us and then go enjoy the talents of the bloggers from Katie's Thursday Blog Hop!

Happy Thursday all!







popular Thursday Blog Hop

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Chaos New York: Where Art and Style Ignite



I just met a new company formed by two talented midlife ladies, CHAOS NEW YORK.  This beautiful bracelet is from their jewelry line... and I love it!  Everything is very unique in design and production. 
I wore it to work this week and decided to pose in our art room, because CHAOS NEW YORK products are so artistic and creative.


You can read about founders, Patricia Grace Stevens and Elena Agostinis Patterson, HERE.  Also, take a look at the ARTISAN WEAR - HERE.






They bring a different point of view and I know there will be some who really like it!



Have a Wonderful Wednesday!!





Bracelet provided by Chaos NY...but the writing is my own.